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BornAlive's avatar

quiet luxury is the high end version of maoist clothing. devoid of shape and color. expensive sack cloth. you are right and i share your position that women will always give birth to SOMETHING whether it is a real human a great piece of art or the extermination of her countrymen under the guise of not being of this moment. i do like the look of quiet luxury but there would be a coffee wine or tumeric stain on every thousand dollar white t shirt in a heart beat. excellent article!

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"It is the privilege of a progressing, advanced, culture to be concerned with timeless things. We have no such luxury, we must reference our time and place in the effort reconstruct a culture sturdy enough to be timeless."

Wow, this really connected a lot of things floating around in my mind. Humanity's obsession with eternity and immortality has never gone away. It's easy to dismiss "quiet luxury" as just another silly trend, but the neuroticism that hides behind it is something I can definitely speak for. Ever since I had become conscious of fashion, it's only ever been anxiety-inducing. In March this year you wrote about "Perfection Exhaustion" and even briefly mentioned quiet luxury there. I was struck by how much this mentality controls my view of fashion and my own embodied existence. My style is currently quite straightforward and simple, bordering on minimalist (though I would hate to use that to describe myself), but I don't see that as the problem. The problem is my obsession with perfection and performance. It doesn't matter whether I'm performing in disheveled layers or a solid color two-piece set, the desperation to remain relevant and "serious" about fashion manifests itself as a tight grip around my throat.

One way I'm trying to combat this is to not overthink my outfits and just have fun with it. More energy should go into contemplating and questioning the "why" of getting dressed, learning about the crafts that encompass fashion, and living life in the time given to us now.

As always, your writing encourages me to do just this! Thank you for another raw and insightful piece.

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